Should You Hide Your Porn?

If you love watching porn, should you hide this fact from your significant other?

It's usually said that honesty matters in the end. Being honest from the very beginning can help you maintain balance in your relationship and eliminate future problems. Watching porn can turn into a sensitive issue, especially when you are planning to get into a relationship. Telling her that you watch porn would be an honest approach. If she understands and let you continue, then it's okay for you. But, you may end up with a broken relationship, if she has doesn't like the idea of you watching porn on regular basis (as a habit). In fact, there are many women, who not just allow their husbands/boyfriends to watch porn, but also like watching with them. Even some, make videos of their own private moments and love watching it together. At such situations, the probability of hiding things or secrets that usually causes problems decreases.

She will eventually find out things that you have been hiding for the sake of relationship. If this happens, she will never bring out her personal feelings, but get pissed off. Being form the start will help you avoid potential conflicts that can rise due to various issue related to porn.

One woman said "my boy friend watching porn all the time was not the thing that pissed me off. Problems started creeping in when he started to hide and pretend that he has left the habit. Above all, he used to watch some really weird videos, but whenever I try to watch those videos with him, he either leaves or refuses to watch with me." These were a few instances, which gave birth to a trail of issues.

A good way to go about things would be to keep the topic open, because it helps to keep you away and safe from potential confrontation. Besides, watching porn with your partner can be fun. Moreover, if you watch porn or like watching porn, better find out her views and act accordingly. Hiding anything is the worst solution ever opted.

If you're in a relationship and you love your wife or girl friend, hiding will not help. There is no difference in hiding and cheating. Inform her about your interests at the very first phase of your relationship, at an appropriate time. No need to confess it on first date; but start your discussion as soon as you start dating seriously. If you are serious about the relationship, you'll never hide, but let her know you closely. Don't wait till marriage; otherwise it will become hard for you to bring up the truth. Take her somewhere, where you can talk openly, where she can speak of her feelings. Tell her about your habit and ask her views and how she feels. Try and make her comfortable, so that she can speak of her heart not something made to make you happy. Note her feelings, whether she is into it; willing to give it a try or completely hate the thing.

The universal fact is, keeping secret like porn is not just toxic, but deadly to a budding relationship. It usually starts with a simple-looking lie, but soon that lie grows and engulfs the whole relationship. And when your relationship is at stake, get prepared to choose between your relationship and love for life. True love is hard to find and if you love her, you'll never regret giving up porn for her. Make sure she is aware of your effort, thus will help you gain her faith and confidence. True relationships and marriages demands lots of sacrifice; where you put the feelings of your loved one ahead of yours. You have to make her feel loved and sexy all the times. She must know that nothing can take her place in your life.

As we all know, there is no place for secrets in a relationship, and a secret like pornography can be very disturbing. No matter how old you are, at such situation, you need to learn how to stop; maybe you need some help. Watching porn too often can turn into a habit than addiction. Porn addiction is very similar to drug addiction. Pornography often spoils the innocence of life, ultimately leading to infidelity and prostitution. If not the worst, it leads to keep false expectations from your wife or gf. Men often tend to expect their wife or gf to act like porn actors, who are not making love in real, but acting. Men, who are into porn and love to act the same way, will never be able to enjoy the heart-warming vides of relationship. There are many ways by which a sex/porn addict can overcome these issues.

So, all you have to do is just let them know! If the lady is not interested, neither willing to compromise, then she's not right for you. If you keep it to yourself for long, you may end up getting married to a wrong person. Life will be filled with disappointments and regret. Finding the right person may be difficult, but not impossible. Find the one that can give up porn for you or alternatively is ready to enjoy it with you, but never be dishonest.