Why do most women get jealous when there boyfriends/husbands watch porn?

Jealous of Porn? Is That Normal?

Some women feel betrayed when they go on the computer after a spouse and see that he has been looking at porn. They may experience feelings of intense anger because they believe he is hiding it from them, and that may anger them even more. They may have feelings of not being included, and this can lead to paranoia where one may feel he is looking at porn while they are left alone. In situations like this they should try talking with their spouse about how they feel and ask him to be more open about it. They may want to go online in front of him or mention that you would want to look at porn with him, as a solution.

In some cases women may welcome their spouse using porn to get off because of a loss of libido. This allows them to be left alone while knowing that their spouse is able to satisfy themselves in the home. In this situation porn can be your best friend.

If porn is being used as a substitute for real intimacy or as a primary source of stimulation then there can be a serious problem. If the man would rather watch porn than make love to a willing partner the end result may be that partner eventually leaving.

Sometimes all it takes is a little effort on both parts to help resolve this issue. If viewing porn becomes a sort of addiction, he may need some help to overcome it. Do not approach him in a confrontational manner, as this will only add to the problem. As long as he is not using porn as a substitute for real intimacy and your sex life is still good, he may need a little shaking up. Trying something new in the bedroom such as using some sex toys or role-playing, this may go a long way to solving the problem.

When this problem occurs, don't let any one tell you not to let it bother you, because your feelings are true and should not be denied. The only way to get over it is to sit down and discussed it at length. If there is love and trust and a willingness to work on it, it can be over come.