Tom Leykis

Love Him or Hate Him

Whether you love him or not shock jock Tom Leykis knows how to capture an audience and have people talking about him. The popular American talk radio host has his own show that is known for pushing the boundaries and people's buttons. Tom leykis teaches men not to get used by women, how to get sex with women and encourages guys to spend less money on dates.

The Tom Leykis Show

The Tom Leykis Show was broadcast from 1994 until 2009 and aired from Los Angeles. The show took jabs at politics, current news, and other hot topics of the days. Some days the show would revolve around one single topic while other days a range of issues and topics were discussed. The Tom Leykis Show wouldn't shy away from religion, relationships, or politics.

A typical format of the show would be to discuss one topic each hour. The topic was introduced each hour by Leykis either by sharing a personal story or experience, reading a news piece, or even a study so that there was a basis point to start the discussion at. Thursdays turned into Leykis 101 that acted as question and answer period. The question(s) were asked of Leykis who would then provide answers and solutions. The goal was to provide his listeners with advice, tips, information, and facts.

Tom Leykis - Not So Popular with the Ladies

Meanwhile another feature known as Flash Friday began to take place. Although it started as just a one-time joke it quickly became a permanent feature in the show. The idea is that men should drive around with their headlights on and then whenever these vehicles were spotted women were to show their breasts. As you can imagine this didn't go over well with most women which is a big part of why women hate him. However there were plenty of women who also loved him and would even call in along with the men to alert listeners to where women were responding to "Flash Friday".

It was about more than just Flash Fridays though that contributed to why women hate him, his views on women in general were not always crowd pleasers. Most of Leykis' advice revolved around looking after yourself and he spoke out often about the "flaws" he found were involved with the institution of marriage. Not only marriage, but he openly spoke out about the family court system in particular paternity fraud.

In fact he went so far as to say that a man should never date a single mother, ending a relationship immediately if an ultimatum was given, and never living with a woman. To say he had strong opinions on relationships is an understatement.

Leykis has never been one to shy away from controversy and his views on women and relationships were just the tip of the iceberg.


Post Tom Leykis Show

As mentioned The Tom Leykis Show ended in 2009 and at that time Leykis was still under contract by CBS. This meant that he couldn't have work on any other CBS station until his contract was finished. Leykis is the first to defend CBS however and speaks very highly of the station and how things ended. The goal instead was for Leykis to return to the airways on April 2, 2012, which was the next day after his contract expired. The New Normal Network carries his show and offers online streaming and podcasts.

Also available on The New Normal Network is The Tasting Room, his other show. This program focuses on fine wine, drinks, luxury cars, technology, and food and is heard by the West Coast markets.

Since returning to the public he is once again causing controversy through his advice and conversations. He will literally discuss anything that catches his eye and has a show mission statement of "I reserve the right to talk about anything I find interesting." Leykis has stated that "my job here is not to serve the corporate master.

I am the corporation here." His show is available for free and can be streamed through These shows are live weekdays from 3PM to 6PM. During the day you can listen to the previous day's shows until the new one airs. This means you never have to go without hearing Leykis.

His show is capturing audiences from around the world thanks to the fact that it is available online. His "studio" space is nothing fancy in fact it's just a small little room that is rather dark and plain. The idea is to have it feel like a radio show where audiences are listening live and the callers are also live.

Even the official website ( is filled with input from Leykis such as his blog and the legendary Leykis 101. According to the website Leykis 101 is meant to provide men with education and male entertainment. Just like his original Leykis 101 features there is emphasis on how men can reach personal success, sexual success, and spend less on money on the women in their life. You can read through past questions and answers and even post your own question. The Leykis 101 session airs live on Thursdays at 5PM.

Tom's Blog takes a look at stories and topics that are hot or in the news at the moment and allows him to weigh in with his own thoughts and opinions.

Up Close and Personal

Leykis is well known as an atheist despite the fact that he was raised as a Catholic. He is not currently married but has been married and then divorced four times. He has no children. His relationships have sparked plenty of attention with his second marriage ending after he caught his wife cheating, and another marriage to a listener that lasted all of one year. His last marriage ended in a charge against him of "felony assault and battery and threatening to commit a crime".

Tom Leykis is one of those celebrities that seems to polarize people causing them to either love him or hate him thanks to a long career of sharing strong and outspoken ideas, thoughts, and advice.

Leykis 101: Rules

1. Spend no more than 40 dollars on a date. * You worked hard for it and you should keep it. Spending more won't get you laid anyway. Optimally you should set up an after dinner date for cocktails.

2. Never date single mothers. * You already know her stance on abortion, she won't have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney. Plus her kids will always be #1 in her life and you will always be in the back burner. Why would you want to be in second place to some spoiled brat. They already made a mistake once, twice or more. Note: Child support if for 18 years boys!

3. 3 dates and no poon....? are outta there. * If you haven't got laid by the 3rd date you are travling down the "friends" road and she is just sponging off you. (Leykis' 3 date rule is for guys who ONLY want sex - they don't WANT a relationship. If you're looking for a relationship, then that rule doesn't apply).

4. Leave if a chick if she answers her cell phone during a date. * Most likely she has set up the bogus emergency call to get out of the date early because she's not going to bang or, she just talked to the bad boy that will bang her after you just bought the meal. If she answers the phone and you get that vibe, excuse yourself to the restroom and leave her there.

5. No coffee dates, no lunch dates. * These are non-humping dates. You want alcohol involved.

6. There should be as little time as possible from drinking to banging. Don't detour to Denny's for breakfast or anything like that. She'll sober up and she won't want to bang.

7. Thursday-Saturday is offlimits for a girl unless its definite poon. This time is spent hanging out with your friends and having a good time.

8. Never answer your phone during the weekend. * You want women to believe you are too busy out doing stuff.

9. Do not have a serious relationship until you have realized your personal dreams. * Women are dream killers and will suck the life out of what you always wanted to do.

10. (For beginers) To get it done, Leykis says start with chunky chicks who are experienced or older women. * Older women will love a young guy hitting on them and will show them the ropes. Remember: To play in the game, you have to warm up in the bullpen. This method gives you lots of room for player mistakes.

11. Never bang any chick from work. * Unless you want to be fired. Yea, lots of people have met at work and it worked out for them but, there are also lots of sexual harassment suits ahppening and you don't want to be one of them.

12. YOU ARE PROUD TO BE AN ASSHOLE...wear it like a badge. * Tons of women seem to respect guys that act like jerks. If it's not true why are they alway running after "Bad Boys"?

13. USE A CONDOM DURING EVERY ENCOUNTER. NO EXCEPTIONS! * You don't want the crap she brought home and you don't want to pay child support for 18 years right? NOTE: When your done get rid of the condom good....some chicks are just crazy enough to remove the contents.

14. From Tom himself: The best chicks are the ones who aren't totally americanized. Those girls are pretty much faithful, are hot, good in bed, and will treat you well.

15. Try the best you can to make sure you don't bring a chick back to your place to bang. * You don't want a girl who knows where you lived after you dumped her and gone to the next girl.

16. Your income will reflect the quality of poon you get. Strive high, don't settle, stay hungry. Girls upgrade all the time, and guys should be able to also.

17. Do not leave voicemails. *Your number will show up on her caller ID and that will be enough to get her interest in many cases.

18. Show any way possible that you don't need her. Make her feel like she matters, but she is easily replaceable.

18. NEVER call a bitch twice in the same week. * This was in the movie Swingers, and Tom's played it before.

19. Don't discuss that you are a Leykis listener and follow his rules. * Many women think Tom is a pig and won't bang just because.

20. Christmas, New Year's eve and Day, Valentine's Day, Thanksgiving, her birthday or yours, these are days that are off limits. You do not make plans with chicks you are dating on these days.

21. If you have a dinner date, eat a hearty meal before taking her out. * Tell the waiter that you'll just have a salad. Tell your date your eating healthy. What girl is going to eat more than you?

22. Never do what you don't want to do. *You make the money, you decide on what you want to do and where you want to do it.

23. Don't ask a woman what she wants. Women never know what they want. * You're driving this ship.

24. No Spooning, No cuddling, No staying over. Get in and get out!

25. Don't speak to women you work with unless it is work related. Don't tell them they look nice, don't comment on anything except on what work needs to be done. Your conversation should be limited to Good morning and goodnight with exception of the occasional good afternoon. Saying anything more may and most likely will lead up to a lawsuit.

26 Men don't dance! * The only exception is if you are Gay or Latino.

27. Never compliment a woman. Never. * It raises her self esteem and she will look down on you. It will actually decrease your chances of getting pussy.

Of mention: Hold off on marriage as long as possible. There is no benefit for a man getting married. * Proof- your husbandly responsibilties include but not limited to the following 1. pay for rent or mortgage(full or portion of the house will be hers in case of divorce) 2. pay for her credit card bills 3. pay for her medical bills 4. pay for her dental bills 5. pay for the gas she puts in her car 6. pay for her car 7. pay for her car repairs 8. pay for childbirth 9. pay for childs clothes. 10. pay for her groceries 11. pay for her shoes 12. pay for her clothes 13. pay for furniture 14. pay phone bill, gas bill, electric bill, water bill 14. pay for her traffic citations 15. pay for gifts she buys for her own family 17. pay for her school loans 18. pay for girlie things like new carpet, designer minibilinds, wall paper, new paint, plants, decorations etc......

A woman's wifely responsibities on the other hand require an almost infinitely less expenditure of blood and sweat- suck and fuck the husband and be nice. A man's ordeal doesn't end there, the load only gets greater. Once a husband makes more money and fulfills all of the above and thinks he can relax a bit the wife will add more load on which the husband must deliver. Examples are: moving into a larger more expensive house, buying another expensive car, having more children, shopping more frequently, picking up expensive habits (eating out, expensive vacations, visits to the salon, cosmetic surgery etc). In other words most husbands will be chained to the office until death.

It doesn't end there. Women today are vastly different from their 1950's counterparts. Most wives of 50 yrs ago expected little from a husband- just have a decent job and fuck me and most stayed in the marriage for better or worse. Today's female is a totally different breed of cat. Look at divorce rates. Now if the husband and/or wife decides to divorce the husband will PAY. After divorce court all the husband will own are his shrivelled balls and a ton of bills and bad credit while the wife will enjoy the house, cars, children, and a pound of the husbands flesh and blood every month(alimony & child support payments). Now the husband will never get laid. What woman will fuck a broken down loser with a lifetime of alimony payments. Remember, none of you guys are special and divorce can and will happen to any of us.