Porn vs Sex

Ann Stone and Steve (her husband) are porn stars. They act in pornography to make a living. But, despite of their every effort, they fail to make their porn sex look innate and natural. According to many experts and professionals, actors need to learn how to put their emotions at right place. "Sex as work may sound exciting, but it can't afford you satisfaction, which can be only achieved by personal sex. Steve and I share a deep and heartedly cherished emotional bond. Sex is not all about hardcore action. To feel the zenith of satisfaction, emotional fulfillment is necessary"- says Ann.

Sometimes they do porn sex at home. "In our home made porn sex video, you may find me doing some real weird and nasty things, but during the session, there comes a moment, when we actually want to make real love and feel the flow of sensations"- adds Steve. As a matter of fact, Ann and Steve know and clearly understand the sheer difference between porn sex and real sex. They know that porn is merely targets men's erotic fantasies, while real sex has the true power of offer mutual pleasure. Unfortunately, this difference does not exist in the conscious of porn consumers - especially men, who take sex as a mode of pleasure.

If you'll turn the pages of history, you'll find evidence on tons of cultural debates over porn. It seems like the efforts were more to pit the right of free speech against censorship. There are two groups that are fighting "in favor" and "against" this issue. Defenders are in group of the "First Amendment," whereas excoriate haters are called as Nazi prudes. Personally, I'm in favor of free speech against porn. Though, I speak in favor of porn availability to adults, I also think and deeply wish that that the debate should be taken to higher standard, beyond the First Amendment. When it comes to sex education and therapy, porn proves to have some legitimate uses. But with this fact, lies an ultimate truth of pornography leaving bad impact on sex.

Easing the Eagerness: Porn helps people to cool down their anxiety levels and ease their eagerness. One can overcome the sense of guilt, which has been creeping from long in his/her mind about sexual desire. However, men are particularly affected by porn. They are influenced by the sense of unfairness (a feeling that makes him feel inferior than others). They take porn for reala and fail to understand its fantasy part.

Porn Men with Huge Tools: Not all the men have a huge tool; neither are they categorized at such basis. Male actors of pornography are especially selected for having huge endowment. Here "Huge" means "real huge." They are notably bigger and thicker in comparison to normal males. Unfortunately, man of today has started judging himself on the standards of porn penises, which is no doubt turning into a serious issue. This is one of the prime reasons why many men think their tool to be "too small."

Porn Men Have Instant Erections: Really! Can a wink make men have instant firm erections? No doubt, it's all fiction. Well, if this is fiction, what is reality then? You will be surprised to know that most of the porn male actors take Viagra for firm erections. Moreover, there are some, who suffer from balky erections even after taking erection drugs. Only few young men have this ability, but with age this ability starts fading. While for most men, gentle, playful touch is enough. Porn ignores and clearly overlooks the real need of the whole-body, which is based on direct stimulation and sensuality.

No loose Erections: Porn stars make you live the fantasy, where rock-hard penises do not lose their stiffness until ejaculation. This is somewhat possible with men under 40, but after 40, fantasy alone cannot do the wonder. In case of older men, even during sex, erections may subside due to distraction, which demands more stroking to attain the firmness. This is something, you'll never see in porn movies.

Long Lasting Erections: There is no word like premature ejaculation in porn dictionary. But in reality, premature ejaculation is common with about one-third of men of different ages. Playful and leisurely whole body massage is the key to achieve good ejaculatory control; which is completely opposite to the hardcore action sex in porn. Instead, men trying to imitate pornography are known to experience quick ejaculation.

No Ejaculatory Difficulties: Ejaculatory difficulties are the one of the fairly common problem faced by most of the men today. If you think, porn stars never suffer from this problem, you are wrong. One of the common factors is, not understanding the value of full-body massage. Watching porn stars coming in cue has degraded the importance of whole-body sensuality. But, in reality, this is the thing that actually matters.

All Women Love To Show and Reveal: Breasts and genitals flashing, running around all naked is all only possible in porn. According to studies and researches, very few real women love to show off their assets; the graph rises to only 1% to 2%. Most of the real women are insecure about their bodies; hence showing off thing is not possible with them. Like in porn, male porn viewers fantasy of their lovers to show off and wish this to happen in reality as well. They often don't understand the difference between reel and real life.

The Sex Is 95% about Intercourse and Fellatio: After playing with breasts and genitals, it is all about intercourse and fellatio. Genitals do play a vital role in lovemaking, while oral sex can also take you to the zenith of pleasure. But, there are times when genitals don't respond properly, unless you caress it all over with loving gentle touch. Porn sex does not include anything like touching and caressing, it is completely preoccupied with genitals. Men imitating the act often end up with premature ejaculation, ejaculatory difficulties and erectile dysfunction - plus their lovers start taking less interest on them due to their awful actions.

Fake Relationships: Porn has nothing like dating, courtship, laughter, conversations, or shared interests. It is all packed with hardcore action. Women, who crave love and attention, find this highly inappropriate and incomprehensible.

Women Craving for Genital Sex All the Time: Men can have instant erections, but women demand more time to feel the sensations and warm up. Unless they are completely relaxed, they cannot be comfortable with genital play. There are women, who need 30 to 45 minutes of foreplay, including kissing, mutual whole-body massage, hugging, playful and creative sensuality before any sexual activity. Porn overlooks all such things and encourages men to become sexually active before women feel comfortable to start. According to surveys, women dislike men rushing into sex too quickly. They do not know how to make love. Porn is the reason, why women feel unsatisfied and are often turned-off during intercourse.

Pornography Defining the Sex: In 1890, movies started including porn in their content. The very next year witnessed the pornography on films. If you take a look at some of the oldest porn videos, you'll find that the hairstyles and clothing are antique, but when it comes to sex, the styles are remarkably contemporary. Porn sex has always been based on a Big Lie that has been repeated time and again. All porn is portrayed over the same sexual styles and techniques, thus viewers infer it to be the real way of making love; they ultimately fall into the mechanical, rushed, consensual and genitally preoccupied sex.

Pornography- The One and Only Sex Educator: Nowadays, Internet is stuffed with countless pages of free porn. Many viewers take porn for real sex. Though, porn can be legally used for therapy and sex education, on other hand it's extremely bad for sex. Pornography is more like action movies, exciting and packed with thrill, but nothing to perform in real.

"The Real Thing" Ann and Steve are porn stars, but clearly understand the difference between porn and personal sex. "Personal sex is full of wonderful playfulness," explains Ann. "When intercourse doesn't work, Steve gently massages my clitoris. After hardcore sex at work, we love to slip into real things at home."